Asking Eric: I haven’t left my unhappy marriage of 45 years because of our adult kids

Dear Eric: I am 72 and a father of five. Over time, my relationship with my wife has become very difficult. She is loudly critical, demanding and nagging, holding back all kinds of affection.

Meaningful conversations between my wife and me are thwarted by her unwillingness to engage in rational discussions. Whenever I attempt to convey my perspective, I am met with dismissal. I frequently feel unheard, and unresolved issues linger like shadows over our interactions.